It's been such a long time since I last blogged and I've truly missed it.
And as usual it's so not the time for blogging but I'm still going to do what I love.
There are no angels on Earth so stop acting like one!!
Treat people as if they are all unfaithful unless proven otherwise!!
I've always been against that. Why should I treat a person and always expect the bad? Why don’t I expect the good unless proven otherwise?
May be because I treat the person in front of me as if he was raised up the same way I was, with the same morals and ethics. I expect that the major facts of their personality as common between us. And that his faults can never harm me in anyway. I assume that what I see on TV about devilish evil people is not true, and if it's true, it'll never happened to me. I expect that as soon as you are called my friend, whatever fault I have in my personality you would accept and never be angry from since we're friends. I expect that as soon as you are called my friend that whatever dirty acts you have, you'd never apply on me since we're friends. I expect that a friend never betrays. I expect that you are pure inside and that you can never hurt.
Well, apparently I expect so much and people in this world are so not what I expect. They are all wearing masks, masks to hide their true identity. They go through life as a fake to reach their goal. The question is, when they reach it are they satisfied? I'm sure they lost a lot of friends during their journey by faking relationships, so are they now satisfied? Do they have that calming inner peace that we all dream of when we reach our goal? You know, more important, do they feel satisfied with what they did to their friends and close ones? Do they like verify what they did and convince themselves that they didn't do anything wrong?
I really don’t know. And I don’t really want to know. I just hope I learn from my previous experience and stop treating people as if they are saints. No one's perfect. I shouldn’t expect so much. So I guess in the end it's all my fault!!
5 comments:
As if u r talking about me dear manoushty,, really no angels are on Earth and we have to be like now earth ppl, or we leave that Earth...
You make me want to cry,, But No one Deserves ur tears and Z one who is will never let u cry!!!!!
Menna, great post, I must say, n so true - unfortunately!
Let me make the world that u happen to have finally realized how ugly it is, is even much worse.. "I'm sure they lost a lot of friends during their journey by faking relationships," tell u what, WRONG!!!
I passed the point u're at right now, to the point that I realized that all those mean ppl, they just fit perfectly with each other! Haven't u noticed that even though X is a jerk, n Y is different kind of jerk, they seem to be perfect friends, n that u're that little creepy person who just couldn't cope?!
"So are they now satisfied?" Yes, dear, they are! And yes, "I guess in the end it's all my fault!!" ..
The first of the five secret of happiness, is to expect NONE from others .. with u happy, pleasant, tireless life :D
may Not all the People like what u think ... may some of them lose things / people in their life , without intending that .. or Meaning it ...
i know that i don't know u well But i feel it so much now ... i feel that " el nas 2sia we 3'adara" but what i'm sure that NOT all of them .. there's people that ofcourse u have met or u 'll meet that are truly Friends .. and Ready to keep their Relation wiz u 4ever ,
and there's others that Don't care at all , There's people that talk to u in so nice way , and then u discover a lot of things happened and said behind u , u will not prevent urself from treating with them , bec. it's impossible .. those People are every where .. whatever .. when i read ur blog i felt shy to reply as i don't know u so much .. but i felt it alotespicially now and i wanted to say .. " hey my sweety all of us meet bad people , all of us feel with great pain sometimes , all of us meet people that u wish ot to meet , and that's life ... " all what in my hand is to try to forget pain :$
Well .. First thanks ya'll for commenting .. i always enjoy that :D
Moro .. sweetie my words always tend to have tht affect on ppl :huh .. but like i told u .. its better to just treat ppl as they truely r and dun expect much and never rely on anyone.
Ala'a .. Mr.President :D .. as usual u r right .. they do get along just gr8 and no they dun feel guilty, they actually verify everything they do, and amazingly they make YOU feel bad and feel that you are the one to blame!! weird ppl .. its just coz am naive and innocent that i believe them (a):D . "The first of the five secret of happiness, is to expect NONE from others " .. well, seems i'll never be happy :D
Asmaa ... semsema el gamiila .. for sure not everyone is like that. but the shock comes when ppl u care abt betray u then thats the shock. and even then, trust me i dun let them get to me. i dun get depressed and angry bcoz of them, they r represent nth to me once they betray our friendship. mate2la2sh 3alia ya semsem, ana gamed :huh :D
Well, that's WRONG AGAIN :D
It's not that they make u feel guilty, let me correct ur feeling; they make u feel the crazy person whose guilt is making a huge problem out of a trivially silly incident! It's more like "Grow up! Get over urself!" ..
So, now u have limited choices:
1. Go fight n be the crazy, creepy, freaky, sick, dull psycho of the gang .. coz u're just so childish n u can't get over being treated in a mean way! or ..
2. Decide to break all the relations u have with every person who has hurt u or messed ur day and eventually u'll end up alone on a far away planet! or ..
3. Keep it inside n let the pain wear u out n eat u inside n add a new crack in the wall that no one knows when it's gonna breakdown!
You know, they say, everything has a price .. I'll add: so pick the cheapest!!! :D loool
No, just accept ppl as they are .. that's the 4th alternative!! The hard alternative, that everyone know, yet never implemented :D
If sm1's 5% good n 95% bad, if u see them, try enjoying the 5%, n just run away or avoid them when it comes to the 95% .. Don't get too close .. Don't involve urself in a relationship unless u're asked to from the other side .. Eat a lot of pasta, chocolate n get a good sleep :D
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